Nothing Compares 2 U: An Oral History of Prince by
Touré
My rating:
3 of 5 stars
This is a peculiar book. On the one hand it has some fascinating stories, and on the other it's what I refer to as a 'money grab' book.
I had never heard of the author Toure, despite being a devout fan of Prince's since When Doves Cry became No.1 in the UK. And when I look him up, I see that he has been making a lot of money off Prince since his death - like many of the people who took part in this book - but then again I couldn't be sure they did actively take part in this book - except for Susannah Melvoin, who wrote the foreward. I'll get to her later.
I can't decide if this is a compilation of stories found on the internet by a lot of the people who spoke about Prince after and before his death, because some of them spoke of him as though he was still present and some were clearly after his death. Some clearly were and other pieces weren't. And Toure interjects himself between these stories with his own third party observations, and sorted them into categories. And he uses quotes and pieces out of Mayte's book.
But what I really didn't like about this is the pop-psychology that Toure does of Prince, which was very critical and judgemental - he even had a whole chapter of hearsay quotes from people who had slept with Prince, about how he was in bed. I found it very disrespectful and a little perverse, especially from someone who purports to admire Prince. He continually refers to Prince's childhood trauma and claims he had an inability to connect to anyone. And then later in the book you realise where his bitterness comes from: an interview with Prince he did where Prince didn't give him any of the personal details he was looking for. If Prince were alive he'd sue his arse off.
And then to Susannah Melvoin, someone who had an off and on relationship with Prince in the 1980s. On the one hand she gushes about Prince and how special their relationship was and how important he was to her, and on the other she makes Prince out to be the bad guy. Clearly she had no boundaries and kept going back for more. She talks as though she was significant to him his entire life, but it seems the last twenty to thirty years of his life she had no contact with him - except for a funeral of mutual friends here and there. Much like her twin sister Wendy, and Lisa who left the band in the 1980s.
I don't disbelieve anything they shared, but the majority of it included people who didn't actively engage with him in the last twenty plus years of his life, which made the final chapter so sickening. They all lament the events of Prince's death, blaming it on the people who were in his life at the time. They claim to know something was wrong with him from the moment they'd heard his plane had an emergency landing two weeks before, and that his death wouldn't have happened if they had been there. But not one of them did get on a plane and go to him when it happened. And then they were all upset that they weren't invited to his funeral - a small religious affair - though they all flew in and had their own get together to celebrate him. But again they continually go on about how lonely he must have been and how awful his life must have been at that time - yet none of them knew.
So on the one side I enjoyed the stories of Prince and his genius musicianship and how he was a workaholic. The rest was like reading people sharing their grieviances and making observations and judgements on someone who had suffered a really awful childhood trauma, as though any of them had a clue what that had been like (none of them had), and claimed they knew what addicts were like and what you had to do, but none of them did, because they weren't actively in his life for the last couple of decades of it. I'd have loved to have heard from people who had been, but it seems this book was only really about the revolution - or maybe those were the only quotes that Toure could find, or people who would speak to him. Maybe those that had been actively in his life had more respect for him than to share their dirty laundry in this book. He would have hated this book.
The only books worth reading about Prince are Mayte Garcia's book, The Most Beautiful; Morris Day's book, On Time, and Prince's own book, (even if it is just the beginning), The Beautiful Ones.
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